Recently, a little situation has come to rise via Facebook.
Mr. Anonymous and I have several mutual friends. We met ONCE in person and he tried FB chatting me one day. At first, I responded to be polite but I eventually slowed down with my responses and then just stopped talking altogether, aka started ignoring him. Few months later, his dad passed away and I wrote him a little message to voice support/encouragement. After that, he FB chatted me again and I actually responded in a timely manner because I felt bad about his current situation. It's never easy to deal with a loved one passing away.
Anyways, after that one (and only) convo, he started writing things on my wall that made it sound like we were dating. He'd say things like, 'I'm waiting for you! Where are you'--'Can I take you on a date?'-- to responding to my FB status that said: Classical is my music haven. His comment: What does that make me then?
UM.. what? I straight up told him to stop cock blocking on my FB. I don't understand why he would do that. I don't know if he's completely oblivious or if he's aware, and I'm really not sure which is worse. I just don't understand why he would be putting himself on blast on my public FB when we've only met once!!! It's not even like I've gone on a date with him. It's so ridiculous and makes me cranky.
This is why guys are so delusional! Is it mean if I just block him from my wall? Goodness.
Wednesday, June 29, 2011
Monday, June 13, 2011
Introduction: Hi, I'm Not the Mafia
A few months ago, I started emailing with my friend on an almost-daily basis. Apparently, he really enjoyed my emails because he always found my dating stories so entertaining. He suggested that I start a dating blog for fun... and I finally decided to start!
For those who are curious about the name of my page... the same friend actually suggested it. Mafia is a game that I like to play a lot-- the mafia kill and the civilians try to find justice by pinpointing the mafia. At the end of each round, one person is killed off (there is a narrator to the game who sees who the mafia target), and it is the civilians duty to find the mafia before they are all dead. It's all about deception and persuasion because the mafia try to fit in with the civilians, and the wrongly accused must convince their fellow civilians that they are innocent. Now, why mix this with drinking and dating? He says, "Because people aren't always who they seem, you're trying to figure them out while trying to protect yourself, dating is all a game and it's always best when there's alcohol involved." He's always had a way with words. A smart one he is indeed.
He actually started his own blog on wordpress to give the guy's perspective. For the curious, his page is: imnotthemafia.wordpress.com
His first post:
Guys are so delusional, aren't they?
For those who are curious about the name of my page... the same friend actually suggested it. Mafia is a game that I like to play a lot-- the mafia kill and the civilians try to find justice by pinpointing the mafia. At the end of each round, one person is killed off (there is a narrator to the game who sees who the mafia target), and it is the civilians duty to find the mafia before they are all dead. It's all about deception and persuasion because the mafia try to fit in with the civilians, and the wrongly accused must convince their fellow civilians that they are innocent. Now, why mix this with drinking and dating? He says, "Because people aren't always who they seem, you're trying to figure them out while trying to protect yourself, dating is all a game and it's always best when there's alcohol involved." He's always had a way with words. A smart one he is indeed.
He actually started his own blog on wordpress to give the guy's perspective. For the curious, his page is: imnotthemafia.wordpress.com
His first post:
Guys are so delusional, aren't they?
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